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    6/30/2009

    Mexican Chicken Soup

    This is my new favorite Summer soup. It is quick and easy. It is best with some cracked tortilla chips, chopped avocado and a little cheese. We make it just before we go to the pool and it is very light and just a little spicy. If you love lime then add extra and you can always opt on the lime if you do not like it. I do not like cilantro so I skip it.

    2-32 oz chicken broth
    1-15 oz black beans
    1-15 oz pinto beans
    1 can Rotel
    3 c chopped chicken
    1 can white corn
    1 tsp lime
    1/2 tsp cumin
    cilantro optional
    salt/pepper as taste

    Add all ingredients and simmer for about 20 minutes. Garnish with grated cheese, sour cream and tortilla chips.


    6/27/2009

    some Hope

    My oldest daughter, Linz has had it tough these past 8 years. She started a hair pulling disorder in 2001 and her anxiety has worsened over these years as well. Her faith was strong and confident, but these years have really shakened her faith in God and religion. I tell myself, that part of this is normal development, in questioning God and Christ but I know a lot of it is why? I can hear her...I prayed to be delivered from this difficulty and why does He not hear me?

    I breaks my heart to see her struggle over these years. Yet, I have this confidence, that He will make it right. He will take these sad times and take it into compassion and something greater. I see progress in my young woman, she is now 18 and I sometimes forget, how much progress she has made. She has gone so far and despite the anxiety, she stands up for doing the right thing most of the time.

    Do you know those people, who just beat in another way that other's do? That is my girl and I am so proud of her. I hope she really knows that. So... sometimes she wears crazy clothes (think Medievil clothing or Japanese street rock clothing) and wears wigs. She is 5'10" tall and she is always noticed. Most of the time, she looks pretty awesome. I just don't care, as long as she feels good and doesn't look like a hooker. (heehee)

    Lately, Linz has taken to cursing online, not at home but Yuck. I guess I should count my blessings that it isn't outloud around her siblings. She has this friend, Kay, who I am not so excited about. I know Kay has her own problems and has not been the best example to my girl. Today, I was a bit relieved when I heard her "wicken" phase has fizzled and she has decided to checkout different Religions. So now I am bringing this girl to our Church this soon. So my prayer is thank you Lord...You do hear me!
    6/4/2009

    every morning

    The one thing that keeps me sane with my 5 kids, is coffee. My kids know I am addict, at least in the mornings. Don't talk to me unless I have had 2 full cups of my coffee. I love the mornings before the kids wake up. I have to gather my thoughts and read my e-mail, maybe even a blog post to share or read.

    So my boys had their first official day of Summer. I creep early to get my Joe and the kids are UP! Wow! I really hope they don't talk to me until I get that second cup! 

    5/26/2009

    A Blur...

    This year has been a blur so far.  I never know what the year will bring our family.  The last 5 or 8 years have been very challenging and I want that boring year.  So far, that has not happened.  We went from the Winter ice storm's to the news that we could possibly move near our family in Florida.  At this point, we are still in our home, hoping that we can sell it.  We assumed my husband's company would give us a relocation but that has not happened.  Company policies have done that.  We have not heard absolute NO so we keep waiting.  We listed our home on ourselves last week.  Lots of sadness thinking of leaving our friends and much joy knowing we can live near our family. 

    The last few months, are just a blur of paint and handymen coming through my door.  Five kids and many years of little updates to our home and it was a major job.  It feels good to clear the clutter and see the fresh paint.  I love my new wood floors but they scare me as I fear a toy or dropped item denting them.  Glory's dog hair is more evident but I am use to swiffering more often.

    Now we wait for interested buyers...hopefully.  I don't fret.  I just know it is in God's timing and if it is meant to be, we will be there. 

    Care is getting ready to graduate from Junior High.  She is excited to be on the High School Cheer Team.  She has boyfriend who seems to be perfect in many aspects (faith and athleticism).  I like him.  MJ is getting so tall!  Taller than my 5'7" and he is still 12.  He plans to do some basketball camps this Summer and so smart.  He still helps at home and I appreciate him.  Feed him good food and he will keep coming back!  Bella is very attached to her Dad, watching the Office almost every night.  He is so busy at work.  I hope his new job should bring us back to Earth.



    Linz is the usual drama but we are working on biofeedback and she will take her GED this June.  She is so unhappy about our religion and she wants to shun our Catholic life.  This is a new road for me.  I thought all my kids would love the same faith we share.  Her depression and anxiety has kept her in a dark place for too long but she longs for her own freedom.  She is still my sweet girl, so creative and beats to her own drum and I just pray she finds faith on her terms.  She is now 18 and she just want independence despite her anxiety.  We are seeing some relief with biofeedback and I can only hope it will keep freeing her from her pain.  Medications have been a nightmare.  Her arts and writing is so awesome.  I hope she can get her GED and find an outlet for her creativity...school or work.





    Almost June...WOW! Blessings!
     
    4/30/2009

    Ratatouille


    I have not fallen of the blogosphere but close...first, Easter Blessings to my blog friends! 

    Chaos...more chaos and even more chaos continues around our home.  We had a tummy virus that took several weeks.  The roofers took their sweet time but did get it done.  They told me 2 days and it was more like 2 weeks.  We continue wait on a possible relocation.  The chances are very high that we can move to Florida near our family but this has dragged on since February with no definitive answer.  Of course, it is in God's timing and I see it clearly.  We had our wood floors replaced and they are gorgeous dark cherry wood. We had to sell the home eventually and the floors needed it badly.  The floors and roofers overlapped and then I had a handyman fixing doors and painting...my head was spinning while kids were sick...all around Easter week. 

    Things are slowing down more and I am clearing out my attic.  My Homeowner's association will bring a big dumpster for a week and I plan to purge some big items that no one wants.  I am bringing boxes to Salvation Army and Cancer support groups.  It is so great to release more clutter.  The worst is the clothing...5 kids...things out grow and it is a job to resell, purchase, return, get rid of and shoes as well. 

    That reminds me...time to fold more laundry!  I am passing on my favorite crock recipe of late...lots of veggies and so easy! 

    Ratatouille

    2 eggplants (chopped with big chunks with the skins on)
    4 zucchini (big chunks)
    1 clove chopped
    1 green pepper (big chunks)
    1 onion (big chunks)
    6 to 8 roma tomatoes, quarterd with the seeds removed
    1 tsp dried thyme
    1/2 tsp dried marjoram(big chunks)
    1/2 tsp salt
    1/2 tsp pepper

    I use a large crock pot and it is full of veggies. If you have a smaller crock pot, then you should do 1/2 the veggies. You can add more or do less depending what you enjoy the most. Drizzle the veggies with olive oil and toss the veggies and seasonings. It cooks about 6 to 8 hours on low. You can eat this cold or hot with french bread or pasta or alone. I will say that most of my kids do not like this but it is my treat and I will eat this for several days with leftovers. ENJOY!

    3/31/2009

    Some old pictures

       That is me when I was 3.  We lived in Ethiopia for a few years.  I barely remember this but I do remember this trip.  We went to the Red Sea and camped.  My Dad has found a way to scan old slides and get them on a disc.  I should be getting some new childhood photos on my hands quite soon! 



    Here I am in the Red Sea!   I cannot wait to scrapbook all this!


    3/22/2009

    A Wonderful Week

       We are not the family that goes skiing or a week in some place wonderful...we stayed at wonderful home and it was relaxing and cheap.  This week I took Linz to her Therapist and Care went to the gym to tumble and prepare for High School cheer tryouts next week.  She is trying to get that coveted spot as a top girl.  She cleaned a lake house and made money.  We had sleepovers. The rest of us went camping and it was beautiful weather...60's but a very chilly night.  I loved the fire and good coffee. We had tons of wood after that ice storm and down limbs and we had roaring campfires.  Can you say smores?!


    We are preparing for a near move but not for sure yet so I have yet to share this with kids.  I think we can relocate near our family in Florida and I can't wait to have that support system near me.  Ironically, I am on facebook with many of my Florida friends are there so I getting good advice on schools and locations.  It is cool when things just work in a God way!  This week, I painted a bathroom and stripped wallpaper in another bath.  We had to replace some carpeting.  The new roof will be put on next week.  Yup!  That storm was so bad that our whole roof was replaced.  I had to spend another $700 to have more dangling limbs removed. OUCH.  I am a busy little beaver but it has been a loud week with kids and friends and I am so ready for the crew to go back to school.
    Linz left the school and plans to take her GED next week.  I think it is for the best.  She is better off meds and she is working on her behavioral therapy and biofeedback.  She stil plans to go to Community College in the Fall.  She is going to help me paint all my trim and projects this month. 

     
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    3/1/2009

    Apologies to my poor blog...



    I have forgot you and went to Facebook the last 6 weeks.  It has been fun reconnecting with my old Sorority sisters and High School friends.  It has been like 26 years since I graduated and it is fun to know what has happened to many old acquaintenences.  I have no one on my blog anymore.  It is kind of discouraging even though I tell myself that I do this for myself.  The isolation at home is easier with a few internet connections.  The Facebook experience has been great, because I hear from a variety of old, family and local friends. 

    As usual, my life has gone upside down this Winter.  Linz's anxiety is growing and we have tried getting things better for her.  We tried meds and it only made her sicker.  It tears me up to see her struggle while everyone else's kid's are going to College and driving.  She is so beautiful and talented and so fearful.  A part of me sjust knows that this will work out right and she will recover, she will find purpose and the struggles will make her to be a important woman who can do things for others.

    We may have a move in the few next months but I won't say much until I really know for sure.  It may be for family and this is exactly what I need.

    The ice storms were horrible and I still have piles of broken branches waiting to have FEMA arrive.  I have to pay $800 to pay for the climbing limbs and our Insurance is purchasing a whole new roof (yeah for that). 

    I have 2 more cheer competitions in March but we had 4 competitions from Jan thru February so there was no time to rest.  I am so happy that my girls went on to a new cheer team.  The stress is less, they help with the travel accomodations and they are a great group of people who are positive. 

    Struggle is normal for me but faith, hope and love is there too.  Blessings!






    12/31/2008

    A New Year and a Blessed Christmas


         
    We have returned from Florida visiting our families for Christmas.  It is 21 hours each way.  A long haul in our ancient Astrovan with 5 large kids who are either in the teen years and preteens along with a sick 4 year old with lots of coughing and a runny nose but we made it!  It was great to see our family although I do dislike the busy part of the holiday.  It is difficult to spend quality time with our family and friends.   We did the best we could and it was very relaxing.  Every day at the dock outside my parents home, we saw tons of porpoises in the river.  They were diving for fish and we could see usually 6 to 8.  This was 3 or 4 times a day and I never got tired of them.  I would sit on the back porch and the kids would watch near my dad's sailboat.  If only we saw a manatee...no luck there.

    It took a lot of time to organize all the kids gifts and stockings this year.  With the economy and our tightening budget, I chose things they really needed and they did get that really desired one thing.  I am very thankful that my Hubby has a great job.  We are grateful that we can afford to travel and I loved the cheap gas prices.

    My big Christmas gift was a Garmin Nuvi...the doorbuster on Black Friday.  Hubby got it for me and I love it!  We followed our new friend, that we named Carmen, through the 20 hours of travel...new routes and we shaved off the the travel time...definately a gift for all of us!

    No drama, lots of relaxing and family...that was my Christmas.  I feel refreshed and ready to combat the next year!  Did I say combat?!  Oh, excuse me...Prepare for the next year!  Yeah, this was my oh hah moment...I need to keep focusing on the Blessings and stop worrying about how to fix or make things better in my chaotic life.  I truly am Blessed.  I have a lot to do in the next year, but I am so pleased that we survived 2008 in a better way.  I have wish I had more time to reflect in my blog but I have laundry (lots of it) as we just returned from our trip.

    Happy New Year may you have many Blessings in the next year. 
    Live, Love and Laugh in 2009




    12/7/2008

    Christmas shopping

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    ith 5 kids, shopping is kind of crazy for me, especially since I do suffer from short term memory too.  What has helped me is a spreadsheet (sounds nerdy, I know!).  I refer to it a lot! It helps me to know if I am being fair and not overbuying.  I keep things even easier with only one gift from Santa (I always think about underprivileged kids who are lucky to get just one gift...why would they need more!) and 3 gifts from Mom & Dad (Jesus got 3 gifts from the Wisemen so we started that tradition years ago)  It is always PJ's, a book (which has expanded to a video or game) and a special gift.  I still stuff the stockings and I try to keep those gifts light but heavy with chocolate!

    I have done a lot of online shopping this year and since we visit family in Florida for the holidays, it is getting shipped there.  I like online shopping now more than the stores.  I went to Black Friday sales and I found it horrid.  Grumpy even horrid shoppers!  I even brought Care to make it a fun day.  Instead I had one woman cursing near me and another yelling at me in the parking lot.  WOW! 

    I have found some creative ways to shop online and I plan to do more.  I love and hate those coupon codes.  Love them when I have one and hate it when I don't!  I have made life better by searching for the codes.  There are a lot of them and some of them work and some don't.  I am passing on my favorite and I can only say, they do work and sometimes they don't.  You do not have to sign up for them either, they are just there.  Good luck and have a wonderful, Blessed Advent (as we prepare for Christ's birth). 
    Be nice to everyone!


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    11/23/2008

    Steamed!

    I am steamed!  My husband who works way too much and is working even more as he transitions from one job to another.  Has taken a smoking habit!  I am so disappointed and I am angry.   I told him, I am not covering this up so that he can have a ugly habit.  He says he just smokes a little and it is not a problem.

    Smoke a little...yeah right!  Smoking is a habit and it is a hard habit to break.  I worked as a Respiratory Therapist for 7 years.  I saw the end of a long habit... Shortness of breath, COPD and Emphysema.  I saw the phlegm and coughing.  GROSS! 

    The red flag is that he wants to and is so detached to our family.   I truly think he has depression (he lost his boss a year ago) or maybe it is just a lot of work stress.  I really do have my hands full these days.  I really could use your prayers as I survive the Holidays.  I am going to encourage him to be more involved with the family or go to a therapist.  The other option was to go back to dialoguing used with the World Marriage Encounter.  This was a great weekend for us but it was only a bandaid if you are not there daily or even a quality day here or there. 


    Lately, I have slowed down on the ebay selling and I have been working on the Christmas gifts for the kids.  It did help to purchase some of those gifts.  We are visiting family in Florida for Christmas and I am making many plans.  They drink a lot and we are sensitive to that now that my husband does not drink.  It will be fun and hectic.  I have been scrapbooking again which I really have missed.  I have tried to keep up our family album up to date and I am to 2008 finally. 

    We have been invited to another family's home to Thanksgiving.  No one wants to but I am excited.  Number one...I don't have to cook all day! But the Holy Spirit has done this so I had to say yes.  I just knew this was something I should say of course too.  So I really hope it does go well for their family and ours.  I of course will bring food too and it will definately feel like a family gathering with their 4 kids and our 5 kids! 


    I started taking alli this month and I have lost 7 pounds! This is a huge accomplishment and I hope to keep it up.  I had to do something serious around here.  It is bad enough with the stress and my husband working all the time.  I am still walking and i am even considering running at night (too embarrassed to do this in the sunlight!)  My weight was wearing me down.  I still need to lose those 35 pounds but it is a start. 


    Have a Blessed Thanksgiving if I do not have time to visit your spaces.  God Bless!
    11/6/2008

    Happy Birthday to Linz

    God bless America Pictures, Images and PhotosMy beautiful, complicated daughter turned 18 on Election Day.  Ironically, I think I will think more about the 2008 Election and how historic it was than her adulthood beginning as I grow older.  I am not a Democrat but a Conservative but it was the perfect storm I say for why he won.  As a Catholic who votes Prolife above many other issues, I couldn't in good conscience.  I did not vote for him.  I do have real concerns about how he can do it  but it was a amazing moment.   I asked everyone, did you see Obama speak once he knew he was President and everyone told me they had gone to bed but  I had to sit and soak it in.  It was late and it is late night again.  I just wanted to post shortly. 

    Tonight I leave a simple prayer...please pray for our leaders...pray for Obama as he begins his office, pray for Life.  I hope he find a bridge between these two political parties.   I am so weary, that the Dems and Reps just tug-o-waring and nothing is getting done.   I am guarded but hopeful. 
    I also hope his little girls don't call their new puppy Maverick either! God Bless the USA.
    10/22/2008

    A Priest's Message last Sunday

    Maybe I am a bit lazy with what I should post personally but I just got this Homily from Mass last Sunday from my sister in law through email.  Just a lot to to contemplate as a Christian mom.  The BUSY part really resonates on  me and I wanted to share it with you.  

    Homily on 29th Sunday of Ordinary Time 

    Do we know what belongs to God? The coin that Jesus requested had the image of Caesar on it; Caesar is a symbol of government.  Therefore this coin symbolizes for us the duty that we have as citizens.  We give to our government (Caesar) what belongs to it in view of the common good, provided that what we give to the government does not first belong to God. 

    And what is the image of God? Certainly it is not found on a coin, but is engraved upon our soul (mind/will). Our soul, made in the image of God, belongs to Him and it is to Him that we give ourselves.  In order to be able to give ourselves to Him, we first put on the mind of Christ in the formation of our conscience: we think as Catholics.  Faith is a pure gift from God; our life needs to be informed by our Catholic Faith.  If not, it is simply blind. 

    Unfortunately Catholics often think and act as though Christ didn’t exist. 

    Among many other things, what keeps many Catholics from thinking clearly about important matters is addiction to media.  This numbs the soul.  Henry Ford once said: “2% of people think; 3% of people think they think; and 95% of people would rather die than think.”  

    The difficulty is that it is almost impossible to step outside our culture to get an objective look at these matters. Therefore we need to rely upon the teaching Church (Magisterium), which interprets the Word of God and sacred Tradition for us. We need to read the lives of the saints to see how they struggled with similar issues in their lives.  

    We swim in our increasingly anti-Christian, pagan culture, and the temptation is for us to go with the flow.  Go with the flow?  In this respect I am reminded of what GK Chesterton said: “A dead body floats downstream; only a living body can swim against the current. 

    What, then, are some practical guidelines to the negotiating some of the traps before us in media viewing?   

    We need to be guided by our Catholic Faith in our discernment of media.  We are to respect our souls and not watch poisonous programs. Certainly we do not watch racy and steamy programs that robs the soul of innocence and makes a person cold and selfish (such as Grey’s Anatomy), or gratuitous violence that make one insensitive to sufferings others (NCIS, Criminal Minds). The danger to our soul is real. Yet people shrug and say: “It ain’t doing harm to nobody.”  But it harms our soul, made in such innocence. This purity of our soul belongs to God and we render to Him what is His. 

    Then there are mindless soaps like Desperate Housewives (need I say more?), Hollywood gossip shows, such as Entertainment Tonight that only itches our ears about the latest scandal or affair in Hollywood. How is this type of program helping us get to heaven, or to keep our minds and hearts to our own business? 

    Then there are some programs that simply are a waste of time.  Isn’t it ironic how some Catholics can memorize the finalists on Dancing with the Stars, but cannot list 10 commandments?  How many can name the starting lineup for Broncos but not repeat at least three saying of Jesus?  

    Are we giving to God what belongs to Him?  Then there are cotton-candy talk shows such as Oprah, who peddles New Age spirituality. She recommends here viewers to read two new age books: Course in Miracles, and New Earth. And countless Catholics buy these books and drink in these errors without recognizing that it is contrary to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I hope that none of you read that garbage. Again, we give to God what belongs to Him: our mind formed by the saving truth of Jesus, and not a mind corrupted by New Age error. 

    It is sad that so many Catholics are practically brainwashed by the media, which helps them justify supporting same-sex marriage and abortion, for example. These are not natural attitudes (like atheism), but are learned from others. Want a proof? Go into a second grade classroom and ask the children: “If a woman is pregnant with a child, should she give birth to her baby or get rid of it?”  They all will say something like: “Of course she should give birth, for it is a wonderful thing to have a new baby!” 

    Even though children need to be educated and disciplined, they also preserve a pure vision of moral life.  They know intuitively what is good and evil. Children are never pro-abortion. This idea (attitude) is acquired later on in life, when adults lose this child-like innocence and convince themselves that abortion is permissible and it is OK to vote for those who support the killing of the children. 

    Many are the causes of this self-deception: 1) selfishness 2) ignorance of Catholic Faith, 3) no prayer life. But much of it we inhale thru media.  

    Satan wants to keep us from thinking through deception. He doesn’t do this in an obvious way but instead keeps us busy to prevent us from thinking about what is most important.  Listen to a description of the devil instructing lower demons on how to destroy a family this way:   

    “Take this human family, too busy to pray, too busy to think about God, too busy to think about what is going on in their minds.  Tempt them to invent numerous schemes to spend, to borrow, to spend, to borrow.  Keep the father away working long hours, and the mom gone too.  Create a busy tension in the home, so even the home will not be a refuge from this tension and busyness.  Lead the parents to work 6-7 days a week, 10-16 hours a day so that they can afford this lifestyle.  Keep them from spending time with their children.  Over-stimulate their minds everywhere so that they will not have the time to think or hear the still small voice of God.  Create an atmosphere of noise where they will always have the radio on in the car, and the TV on at home.  Let them always be on the cell phone, addicted to it as to a drug. Lead the youth to be desensitized to the sufferings of others by their addiction to violent video games; and let their parents look the other way.  And keep Internet pornography a secret: by this sin we have emasculated millions of men and have prevented them from being loving fathers and faithful husbands. Let the topic of pornography never be mentioned by priests; this will remain our secret.”  

    “Keep the family from the beauty of nature and seeing God there, but lead them to an excessive pursuit of pleasure at amusement parks and sporting events.  Let them to prefer movies to conversations.  See that all these things exhaust them and keep them unprepared for the coming week.  Make certain that all stores and restaurants have music and TVs that blare non-biblical and over-stimulating noise.  Overstuff their coffee tables with junk and news that only itches their ears and does not feed the soul.  Have billboards everywhere to tempt them to buy constantly; this will jam their minds and break their union with God.  Fill their minds with a 24 hour news cycle.  Flood their mailboxes with junk mail and all kind of newsletters, with offers of free services, promos, gimmicks, and false hopes.  Keep their mind on buying, buying, and buying. And when the stock market crashes, have them worry, worry, and worry.  It will be easier, then, to control their elections, for when they prepare to vote, they will be anxious about the economy and vote only with their financial future in mind.  Never let them think how their God has promised to be with them in good times and in bad.”  

    “Let them form their political views according to media sound bites and on purely secondary issues.  Allow the killing of the millions of babies by abortion to continue.  We have been so successful in drenching their country in blood under our devious lie of freedom for choice. And let us make those Christians in the pro-life movement appear to be religious zealots who are out of touch with modern life.  Most of all, keep those Catholics so busy that they won’t take time to pray that Rosary of theirs, which has defeated us in so many of our battles and will inevitably defeat us in war over abortion.  Let them be content to watch an NFL game for 3 hours, while not investing even the 15 minutes it takes to pray that Rosary, which will slow down their lives, keep their family together, keep us out of their lives, and help them give themselves to God.” 

    Such is the Tempter’s plan: for us to be too busy to slow down and find the time to pray. This is the wrong, sinful sense of busy: Being Under Satan’s Yoke. We need to pray much to be saved: not three Hail Marys in the shower or an Our Father as the head hits the pillow.  Many adult Catholics are praying at the level they were in elementary school. This is not enough.  We are called to an intimate, profound union with Jesus Christ in prayer.  One in which we know that we are being saved at every moment.  And we find this greatest intimacy of prayer in the Holy Eucharist.  Let us use this time well. To be too busy to find time to pray is to be under Satan’s yoke. 

    Let us think as Catholics and render to God what belongs to Him. Did you know that the average American of 65 years old will have spent 9 years in front of the TV? I think that we can do better than that.  Take some time out today and pick up the Sacred Scripture (and/or the Catechism) and read the saving truth of Jesus for 15 minutes. And then take up the Rosary and pray it for another 15 minutes (and invite your family to pray with you). 

    Having, then, put on the mind of Christ, you can be confident that every day and in every way, at school, at home, at work, in the voting booth, you render to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to God. 

    Finally, let me emphasize that the right to life is the fundamental right.  Every other human right depends on protecting the sacredness of life from conception to natural death.  The Founding Fathers recognized this in the Declaration of Independence: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights; that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.”  They did not list these rights in any random order, but they recognized that first comes life, and only after the right to life come liberty and the pursuit of happiness. 

    The issue of abortion issue embarrasses some Catholics and they would rather not talk about it (after all, it is uncomfortable knowing that 47 million children have been put to death in our nation since Roe vs. Wade and this killing continues.  Archbishop Chaput recently said in a talk: “And because the homicides involved in abortion are ''little murders'' - the kind of private, legally protected murders that kill conveniently unseen lives - it's easy to look the other way.” How easy it is indeed to look away and focus on secondary issues. But our Jesus our Savior reminds us to care for the least among us, the most helpless: the unborn. 

    We can be certain that we will be judged by Christ at our death on 1) whether we vote, and 2) how we vote. Will we vote a Catholic, or (sadly) as someone who just happens to be Catholic? 

    It should be clear to us, my brothers and sisters, what we are to render unto Caesar, and what we should render unto God. 
     

    Father Gary Selin

    10/3/2008

    We finally broke down and bought new furniture

    It has been 8 years and 5 kids...it was time to put down our broken wretched sofa.  The love seat was still in great shape so we put it down to our playroom.  The kids down there were thrilled since they have had fancy folding Target chairs for 5 years.  My theory is kids should not be comfortable near the computer or TV!  They are lucky now!!!  I love this sectional and it is pretty gosh darn big (I sound like Gov. Palin now...heehee).  We also got a ottoman and a pretty recliner chair.  It was a fun week to watch the transformation.  Poor Scooter, was sad, he was rather attached to old one.  It had a huge hole under the cushions and it sucked toys up so I am not sure why he did!

    What else I am doing to:
    •  I have been busy on ebay.  I learned to sell things.  I sold 5 things.  I decided to sell some of my Creative Memories supplies.  I still scrap but I have excess.  I sold 115 stickers and I sold $40!  I turned around and bought longaberger pottery.  I am working on adding dishes to my collection.
    • The usual broken things...my runny faucet ended up to a leak through my playroom ceiling after the plumber messed it up so they had to fix everything.  I just fixed that ceiling in the Spring (these things make me crazy!)
    • I am walking but not enough...I cannot find time to diet. 
    • My new Elantra has XM satellite and I am constantly listening to FOX news (my preference).  I am totally wired into the Election.   Can Palin do it with her 5 kids?  Well I have 5 kids and I know she can do it!!!   I only hope McCain will get the opportunity to be President.
    • did a Pampered Chef catalog show and I got 60% off new pans.  Oh I needed pans badly.  I am so nervous about bad quality with dishes and food items now that there is so much lead these days.  I am upgrading the things I have to replace anyhow.
    The last thing...I am working on moving to Blogspot...or doing both...definately come by and say hello!  I am kind of starting new so you will probably learn some new things about me. Blessings!





    8/17/2008

    SO READY FOR SCHOOL!!!

    Uniforms? check!  New trombone? yes!  Insane long list of school supplies? yes!  Cheer uniforms fit and routines ready for football games? yes!  School clothes for those not in uniforms? yes!  Schedules ready? yes!  Carpool? yes! Mom ready?  YES!!!!
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    ummer was awesome with our Washington DC and Beach visits.  I loved every minute but I am so ready to send my kids off.  I am not ashamed of it either.   They are ready too.
    No one can be more excited in the world...School begins tomorrow!!!  

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    am a Mom for 17 years.  I was one of those Mom's who did not have kids one after another but spaced out 3 years...2 years....a little surprise when my 4th entered kindergarten.  I have not been alone for 17 years.  I had my few moments on Mother's Day out but most of the time, I had an infant.  I sent off one to kindergarten with a screaming newborn in the car several times.  No time to cry for Mom as one goes into the school world. I even had to home school for 3 years when my oldest had the terrible hair pulling (contributed to OCD) and anxiety issues.  It was hard but it was the best back then.

    Little Scooter now 4 is not ready for Kindergarten but he has been in therapy for a year and a half with 4 days, 3 hour sessions, quite far from home and it has turned my whole upside down.  I spent most of the days getting and staying near that place.  I am so thrilled that they recommended him to a real preschool last Spring. They will continue to work with him at school and these therapists through the public schools will see him each week.  He is continuing to improve and really, he is the sweetest little guy.  Finally, he calls me Mom and uses his words.  It was stressful the last few years as I worried.  I still worry because he is still behind but the progress he is making is great. It gives me hope. 

    Once I get him settled at preschool, I will have the biggest relief of sigh!  He has 3 days and that means 3 days for Mom to be alone.   

    I truly cannot remember being alone in a long time.  I may get back to some scrap booking at least once a month again.  I will be cleaning out closets, doing some investment cooking, paying bills alone, having lunch with friends, going shopping every once in awhile.  Next year, Scooter will be in kindergarten and this will get even better.  The days that Scooter is home, we are going to make the most because I am not ready for this every day.  We will visit the library and the park weekly on our days off.  Hopefully I won't be as busy when he is not home and he will have more quality time with Mom. 

    Back to school blessings!





    8/1/2008

    Small Things can make a difference

    I am pretty excited that I walked 3 nights in one week. One of my daughters walked with me twice this week and motivated me.  The second evening, she noticed that I walked up the hill easier and my breathing was less. Hmm? She was right. Just small things can make a difference I told her that and I do know that. It tickles me that I still forget that at times.

    I read something recently in black and white print...the Sunday paper I believe. Yes carbonated sodas, can weaken your bones!!!  As a broken bone survivor in 2007 (broken left ankle and leg with a plate and screws), I have sworn away diet coke for life! I may have one when I have a special meal out but otherwise, it is tea or water.  I drank a lot of diet soda over the years.  I figured if I did not drink as much as a lab rat, I would not have bad side effects like cancer.  I never thought my bones would weaken.

    Yikes!!! I think it is important enough for others to notice.  I had a bone scan last May and I was in the early stagesof osteopenia (borderline) on my hips and just on the beginning of osteoporosis on my back.  I am 43!!!  I have had a healthy diet, should have not walked enough over the years, have taken diet supplements and I drank a lot of diet soda.  I believe it.

    I have spent a good bit of reading about bone health.  What I do to improve my bones is #1 WALKING (best thing to do) and diet...milk, broccoli, supplements and I find calcium every bit I can.  Osteoporosis is reversible.  That is the good thing.

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    I am slowly learning a few things in life: small things can make a difference.  I also see that too much of a good thing is not the best either. 





    7/21/2008

    A Great Vacation

    We returned from our Florida/Washington DC trip last night.  We were gone for 3 weeks and it was relaxing and fun.   I am happy to be home again.  Picked up the dog, washed the bugs off the van windshield, stocked the fridge again and new activities already...Vacation Bible School and Tumbling Cheer Camp. 

    I made a quickie slide show on Photobucket with some of my favorite's.  We have 3 Birthday's in the next week and then it time to purchase school supplies and uniforms.  Why is the Summer so fast?!


    6/21/2008

    Happenings

    I have hated been away from my blog the last month or so.  I think something clicked in me and I realized I was not getting enough done around the house.  I just stepped away from the blog, worked more on things.  I know Summer keeps me busy with kids 24/7 so I may just have to settle on a few blog postings over the months and then settle into my weekly postings once School begins again. 

    This Spring I just felt anxious all the time.  I actually felt sick.  I thought I was sick but then I realized it was stress! I really had to search why and I found it.  Basically, I was overwhelmed but worse more, I was procrastinating! Thankfully, my anxiety is much better and I am glad to get some projects done.  I have had to put other things on the side like blogging.  I miss the reflective side of me...and I need that.   I sure I will return when the kids get back to school and things are quiet once more. 

    I have spent June planning my vacation for my Washington DC.  I am so excited to bring the whole family seeing all the Monuments, the museums and maybe even the President! My kids are in such a sheltered place (think hillbilly's and no big cities) and they must see some different places.  I actually grew up near DC so I can't wait to go again.  I have planned and planned and it is going to be fun.  We will stay right in the middle of DC for several days and then off to the Florida beach to visit extended family. 

    In May, I was mentally drained.  My Care left the cheer team and wanted to tryout a Senior Coed team.  We left the friends and we have new friends.  I miss the Mom's that I came to know.  It is for the best and there are rumors that both teams may actually merge.  Care was getting to old and is pleased to be on a more challenging team.  I do not have a carpool so more driving for me.

    Also in May we purchased a smaller car...an Elantra Hyundai and I pleased.  My gas hog, Astrovan was horrible.   I spent almost $90 to fill up and I was doing that every 5 days.  Now I fill up for half.  We only use it on Sunday for Church and trips.  I buzz around all town in my little car and eventually my teens will drive it.  I pray they drive this year and I can stop driving so much!  I never thought I would pray for this!!!  My wonderful salesman hubby negotiated a free sun roof.   I am enjoying the added fun and clouds above me! 

    Every week, every day, things are rocking...it truly is an Amazing, Wonderful, Crazy Life...I wish you only knew!  Have a great Summer and I am sure I will return in late July. 



    4/29/2008

    Good and bad things about my POTTY!

    The GOOD...I replaced all 3 of my toilets over a month ago because they did not flush powerful enough.  The great thing is that I saved 5000 gallons of water this past month doing that.  I saved $30 on my water bill!  Woohoo!!!  If you ever wondered about high efficiency appliances, I am a believer.  I put in a new larger washer a year ago and I saved $20 monthly on my water bill as well.
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    The BAD...even though I have these beautiful new potty's from Lowe's...my Scooter who recently potty trained this year loves to flush anything in them.  He has clogged one badly.  The first time it was everyone's toothbrushes and then his sister's retainer case.  He has been in big trouble because of this and I think my handyman needs to put a lock in the bathroom drawers soon.  The plumbing bill last time to unclog was about $75.    Photobucket    
    Despite the repairs...kids can still destroy new things as well.  
    This has not been a surprise to a veteran Mom!



    4/23/2008

    Hungarian Cabbage Soup

    I am adding this recipe is for my Mom.  She knows that my kids enjoy this.   I discovered it in a magazine.  I added up the points on my weight watchers etools and if you use light sour cream, the points are 3.  It is a healthy, delicious soup.  I love the fact that I have had caraway and paprika for years and never used them.  Now I have to restock it!


    Hungarian Cabbage Soup

    6 chicken broth cubes
    1 c. chopped onions
    2 T. paprika
    1 tsp caraway seeds
    4 potatoes, peeled, cubes
    1 lb. cabbage, shredded
    8 oz. kielbasa (I use turkey smoked sausage)
    1 can stewed tomatoes
    1/2 c. sour cream

    Bring 7 cups water, broth cubes, onion, paprika, caraway seed to boil.  Add potatoes and cabbage, return to boil, reduce heat and simmer 20 minutes until tender.  Stir in kielbasa and tomatoes.  Increase heat to medium and boil for 5 minutes.  Remove from the heat, stir in sour cream.  Believe it or not...my kids love this soup!

    This week I am in the middle of deciding what to do with our cheer teams.  We probably need to move to a new gym since Care is older and wants a senior team.  This is probably a good thing for me.  The travel will be less, tuition is less and even the uniforms are less.  I am really going to miss the parent's on our team.  I enjoy traveling with them.  It is a loss for me.  Things just never stay the same.  We are still wondering if we will move in a year or stay for many more.